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DIANE HUGHES • NASHVILLE, TN
WRITER, EDITOR, CREATIVE PROFESSIONAL

Big rewards in little pleasures

8/27/2011

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Country road getting lost simple pleasuresGet lost on a country road.
Recently I blogged about living on the edge — taking chances and living life to the fullest. But living on the edge doesn't mean you have to go out today and have some grand adventure (though you can feel free to put that on your list). You can find beauty and joy in life through the varied experiences that bring you pure pleasure. It can be as big as hiking the Grand Canyon or as small as making time to enjoy the things you love but have been too busy to engage in. You can start by avoiding apathy and working to eliminate indifference from your life. Need some ideas to get you started? Here are a few suggestions:

Get out
Outside, that is. Go for a walk in a local park. Plan a weekend camping trip. Eat dinner on your patio for a change. Take the time to observe your surroundings. Listen to the birds. Stop to look at that tiny flower on the side of the trail.

Get lost
Literally. Go for a drive in your car and just get lost. No maps, no GPS, no plan. Just turn onto whatever road suits you and enjoy the journey. I did this a couple of years ago with a dear family member who was visiting from out of state. We took along our favorite tunes and drove out into the country, choosing to follow whichever road called to us. It was a great little adventure and gave us memories that I still treasure.

Listen to the music
Ever notice how listening to your favorite music improves your mood? Do it more often and you will notice a definite change in your attitude. After a few tracks, you'll be ready to take on the world. Whether it's jazz, country, classical, classic rock or hip-hop, play the music that YOU love. I have a bit of a walk at work from the parking lot to the office door. Some mornings I like to plug in the headphones and jam to one of my favorite tunes while I make the trek. It's a big mood booster!

Just do it
Like to paint? Love to knit? Consider yourself a writer? When is the last time you made the time to engage in your favorite hobby or pastime? Maybe there's a skill you've been meaning to acquire. Whether it's mastering new software or learning to knit, look for local classes or online courses that would allow you to learn something new. To quote blogger Chris Guillebeau: The choice doesn’t matter — just do something.

Savor something
Whether it's a cup of your favorite coffee, a book you love or a movie you treasure, take the time to experience and SAVOR it. Love every minute of it while you're experiencing it. If you like, create a ritual surrounding your favorite thing to make it special and more meaningful to you. Take care to focus on your favorite thing. Don't check email, Facebook and Twitter while you're watching your favorite movie. Just enjoy it. Fully.

Culture shock
Are you overdue for a little culture shock? As in culture found in the arts? Go to a museum. Attend a play. Take in a concert. Visit a botanical garden. If your city, or one nearby, offers these opportunities, get online and check to see what events or exhibitions are scheduled, then check your calendar and make a date to go.

Take a mini-vacation
Is there an icon, landmark or renowned site in your own city that you've never visited? A restaurant, a great club or music venue? Maybe there's an attraction in a nearby city that you would enjoy. Make plans and go. I'm one to talk. I live in Music City and have never attended the Grand Ole Opry or taken in an evening of music at the Bluebird Cafe. So, I'm taking my own advice. The Bluebird is now on my list.

Fall is almost here, so I can imagine you in a local Starbucks in a few weeks, enjoying your favorite flavored latte on a chilly morning. Or driving down a country lane, getting lost while you admire the fall foliage. As for me, you might find me strolling through the train exhibit at Cheekwood Botanical Garden or taking in the latest offering at the Frist Center for the Visual Arts.

There really is so much to enjoy in life ... if we just take the time. See you on the road!

Do you have a favorite ritual that brings you joy? Is there a place you visit over and over because it brings you peace and pleasure? Feel free to share your thoughts and ideas. While you are required to give a name in order to leave a comment, feel free to leave your first name only or your moniker of choice. To leave a response, click Comment(s) and enter information in the Leave A Reply form.

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7 Comments
Molly Greene
8/29/2011 01:17:12 pm

Diane, I love this! thanks for the reminder to stop and smell the roses. Over the weekend I spontaneously booked a flight to meet three friends Denver mid-Oct - can't wait!

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Diane Hughes link
8/29/2011 02:00:53 pm

Thank you so much, Molly. Hope you enjoy your time in Denver (love that city, and it's been years for me!). Be sure to savor the experience. :-) I'm sure you will.

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Diane Hughes link
10/9/2011 02:00:02 pm

I took my own advice this week and spent an evening at Cheekwood Botanical Gardens here in Nashville. It was nice to enjoy the gardens, art and other exhibits. Taking time to savor the things you enjoy really is good medicine for the soul. How are you taking time to unwind?

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Bridgetstraub.com link
10/9/2011 02:22:03 pm

You're right that if more people stopped to appreciate what is around them the world in general would be a happier place all around.

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Diane Hughes link
10/9/2011 02:26:26 pm

Thanks for stopping by Bridget! Yes, I think happiness is contagious. Sometimes we just get caught up in the mundane and forget to appreciate the little things.

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Jo VonBargen link
11/2/2011 08:59:07 am

Great advice, Diane!! Of all people, writers need to be healthy. We have to explain the world!!

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Diane Hughes link
11/2/2011 09:37:25 am

Bless you, Jo. Thanks for stopping by. Your comments are always appreciated!

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